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Élisabeth de Gramont

French memoirist and biographer, Duchesse de Clermont-Tonnerre, who was Natalie Clifford Barney's partner from 1910 until her own death in 1954 and one of the writers Barney's Académie des Femmes honoured.

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Lived
1875–1954
Born
23 April 1875
Birthplace
Nancy, France
Died
6 December 1954 · aged 79
Place of death
Paris, France
Nationality
French
Married
Philibert, 8th Duc de Clermont-Tonnerre · 1896–1920
Partner
Natalie Clifford Barney · 1910–1954
Children
Béatrix de Clermont-Tonnerre, Diane de Clermont-Tonnerre
Roles
Author
Also known as
Duchesse de Clermont-Tonnerre · Antonia Corisande Élisabeth de Gramont · Lily

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Illustrated portrait of Natalie Clifford Barney

Natalie Clifford Barney

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Partner of · 1910–1954

Barney and Gramont met around the time the rue Jacob salon began and were together from about 1910. On 20 June 1918, at the Hôtel de l'Europe et Villa Victoria in Aix-les-Bains, they wrote and signed a private marriage contract on hotel letterhead: it acknowledged both women's other affairs and set no condition beyond the bond itself, ending 'the one I marry shall not be called my wife, nor my slave, nor my spouse ... but my one, my eternal mate'. Gramont was married to the Duc de Clermont-Tonnerre at the time; the divorce came in 1920. The relationship lasted until Gramont's death in 1954. Barney also wrote a prose portrait of her, The Woman Who Lives with Me, printed in an edition of two copies.

— Francesco Rapazzini, Elisabeth de Gramont, Natalie Barney's "eternal mate" (2005); James J. Conway, My one, my eternal mate (2018); Anna Livia, Barney, Natalie Clifford (1876–1972), in Women in World History: A Biographical Encyclopedia (2002)

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Honoured by · 1927

Académie des Femmes

Anne Charles names Élisabeth de Gramont, the Duchess of Clermont-Tonnerre, among the talents of the time the Académie honoured; Anna Livia counts her among its French writers. Neither dates her evening, so the year here is the Académie's own and not a date for it.

— Anne Charles, Barney Opens Her Paris Salon (2022), Summary of Event, read 2026-08-11; Anna Livia, Barney, Natalie Clifford (1876–1972), in Women in World History: A Biographical Encyclopedia (2002)

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20 rue Jacob

Gramont is named among the French writers honoured by the Académie des Femmes, the run of Fridays Barney gave over to individual women writers from 1927 in the same rooms as the ordinary salon. Anne Charles counts her among the probable guests at the salon's opening in 1909. No start year is recorded because the sources do not fix one.

— Anna Livia, Barney, Natalie Clifford (1876–1972), in Women in World History: A Biographical Encyclopedia (2002); Anne Charles, Barney Opens Her Paris Salon (2022)

Honoured by · 1927

Académie des Femmes

Anne Charles names Élisabeth de Gramont, the Duchess of Clermont-Tonnerre, among the talents of the time the Académie honoured; Anna Livia counts her among its French writers. Neither dates her evening, so the year here is the Académie's own and not a date for it.

— Anne Charles, Barney Opens Her Paris Salon (2022), Summary of Event, read 2026-08-11; Anna Livia, Barney, Natalie Clifford (1876–1972), in Women in World History: A Biographical Encyclopedia (2002)

Partner of · 1910–1954

Natalie Clifford Barney

Barney and Gramont met around the time the rue Jacob salon began and were together from about 1910. On 20 June 1918, at the Hôtel de l'Europe et Villa Victoria in Aix-les-Bains, they wrote and signed a private marriage contract on hotel letterhead: it acknowledged both women's other affairs and set no condition beyond the bond itself, ending 'the one I marry shall not be called my wife, nor my slave, nor my spouse ... but my one, my eternal mate'. Gramont was married to the Duc de Clermont-Tonnerre at the time; the divorce came in 1920. The relationship lasted until Gramont's death in 1954. Barney also wrote a prose portrait of her, The Woman Who Lives with Me, printed in an edition of two copies.

— Francesco Rapazzini, Elisabeth de Gramont, Natalie Barney's "eternal mate" (2005); James J. Conway, My one, my eternal mate (2018); Anna Livia, Barney, Natalie Clifford (1876–1972), in Women in World History: A Biographical Encyclopedia (2002)