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· American · 1876–1972

Natalie Clifford Barney

American writer who ran the Friday salon at 20 rue Jacob for sixty years, wrote her own books in French, and founded the Académie des Femmes as an answer to the all-male Académie française.

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Lived
1876–1972
Born
31 October 1876
Birthplace
Dayton, Ohio
Died
2 February 1972 · aged 95
Place of death
Paris, France
Nationality
American
Partner
Renée Vivien · 1900–1904Élisabeth de Gramont · c. 1910–1954Romaine Brooks · c. 1915–1968Dolly Wilde · 1927–1941Janine Lahovary · 1958–1972
Roles
AuthorPoetSalon hostPatronTranslator
Also known as
l'Amazone · Tryphé
In fiction
Dame Evangeline Musset in Ladies AlmanackValérie Seymour in The Well of Loneliness

About Natalie Clifford Barney

Natalie Clifford Barney was an American writer who spent almost her whole adult life in Paris and wrote almost all of it in French. From 1909 she held a Friday salon at 20 rue Jacob, in the sixth arrondissement, in a pavilion whose garden contains a small Doric folly called the Temple à l'Amitié. The salon ran, with a break for the Second World War, until 1968. Its guests included Colette, Gertrude Stein, Ezra Pound, James Joyce, Paul Valéry, T. S. Eliot, Marcel Proust, and Ernest Hemingway.

She is usually remembered as a hostess, which undersells the writing. Between 1900 and 1963 she published some fourteen books: sonnets, Greek dialogues, plays, three volumes of pensées, one novel in English, and two books of memoirs. Remy de Gourmont addressed a famous series of open letters to her as l'Amazone, and the name stuck for the rest of her life and onto her gravestone. In 1927 she launched the Académie des Femmes, a set of salon evenings honouring women writers, in answer to an Académie française that admitted none.

Barney lived openly as a lesbian from her twenties until her death at ninety-five, at a time when very few women did, and she refused monogamy on principle rather than by accident. Her long attachments were to the poet Renée Vivien, the writer Élisabeth de Gramont, the painter Romaine Brooks, Dolly Wilde, and, from her eighties, Janine Lahovary. She spent the Second World War in Italy, where she wrote a book of wartime commentary that her biographers regard as the hardest part of her record.

The Fridays at 20 rue Jacob

Barney moved into the pavilion at 20 rue Jacob in 1909 and stayed for nearly sixty years. The house sits behind a courtyard off a narrow street in Saint-Germain-des-Prés, with a large overgrown garden at the back. In one corner of that garden stands a small Doric temple, four columns under a pediment inscribed A l'Amitié. The French heritage register classes it as a fabrique de jardin, a nineteenth-century garden folly that was there long before she was, and it was listed as a historic monument on 16 January 1947, while she was living beside it. It stands on private ground and cannot be visited.

The salon met on Fridays. Barney received in a tea gown, fed her guests properly, and made introductions the point of the afternoon. There were readings, recitations, concerts, and theatricals staged for friends. Attendance was by invitation, and guests were expected to bring people worth meeting.

What she wanted from it was traffic across the Channel and the Atlantic. She believed that American, British, and French writers should know one another and translate one another, and she ran the Fridays accordingly. Colette performed in the theatricals. Ezra Pound, James Joyce, T. S. Eliot, Marcel Proust, Gertrude Stein, and Paul Valéry all came, along with publishers, critics, diplomats, and scholars. Barney translated Valéry for American readers and Stein for French ones.

Two salons dominate the accounts of literary Paris between the wars. Gertrude Stein's Saturdays at 27 rue de Fleurus were built around a picture wall and a theory of modern writing. Barney's Fridays were built around introductions, and around women. Many guests went to both.

Where the name Amazon comes from

Barney met the critic Remy de Gourmont in 1910. He was one of the most influential men of letters in France, attached to the Mercure de France, and by then a recluse, disfigured by lupus and rarely seen. She courted him as a friend: visits, flowers, drives, boat trips, and eventually appearances at her masked ball and her salon.

Out of their conversations he wrote a series of open letters, published fortnightly in the Mercure de France through 1912 and 1913 and collected as Lettres à l'Amazone in 1914. He called her the Amazon after the riding habit she wore on her morning rides in the Bois de Boulogne, which in French is riding en amazone, side-saddle. The letters made her a public literary figure rather than a private hostess. Gourmont died in 1915. The name outlived them both: her headstone at Passy identifies her as the Amazon of Remy de Gourmont.

The books, which were in French

Barney published around fourteen books over sixty-three years, nearly all of them in French, a language she had spoken without an accent since childhood. The first, Quelques portraits-sonnets de femmes, appeared in 1900 with portraits by her mother, the painter Alice Pike Barney. Its subject was love between women, and when her father Albert Clifford Barney found out he bought up the publisher's remaining stock and destroyed the printing plates. Until his death in 1902 she published anonymously or as Tryphé.

Natalie Clifford Barney photographed by Frances Benjamin Johnston. The Library of Congress dates the print only to between about 1890 and 1910, the years around her first books. Public domain. (Frances Benjamin Johnston, Library of Congress · Public domain)

After that the forms multiplied. Cinq petits dialogues grecs (1901) reworked Sappho. Actes et entr'actes (1910) collected plays and poems. Poems & poèmes: autres alliances (1920) gathered her verse in both her languages. The One Who Is Legion (1930), her only novel, was written in English, privately printed in London, and made with Romaine Brooks on the theme of androgyny. Aventures de l'esprit (1929) and Souvenirs indiscrets (1960) are memoirs of the salon and the people who passed through it. Traits et portraits (1963) was the last book she published.

The work she is most worth reading for is the pensées: three volumes of epigrams, published as Éparpillements (1910), Pensées d'une Amazone (1920), and Nouvelles pensées de l'Amazone (1939). Her biographer George Wickes rated them, with the memoirs, as her best writing, and praised what he called the accuracy of her aim. Pensées d'une Amazone opens with a long section against the First World War and on feminism, then moves through love, a novel she says she will not write, and a scattering of notes on literature and old age.

To judge a man, take him out of his world; to judge a woman, give her one.

Pour juger d'un homme, sortez-le de son milieu; pour juger d'une femme, donnez-lui le sien.

Pensées d'une Amazone (1920)

The register is dry and very short. Most entries run to a single line, and the effect depends on compression rather than argument. Her guests described her talk the same way, which is one reason the pensées read like a person rather than a programme.

The Académie des Femmes

The Académie française had been electing men since 1635 and would not elect a woman until Marguerite Yourcenar in 1980. In 1927 Barney set up her own version. The Académie des Femmes was not an institution with statutes and seats. It was a run of salon evenings, each given over to one woman writer, held in the same room as the ordinary Fridays.

The point was to introduce French women writers to their English-speaking counterparts and to put money and an audience behind work that was not getting either. Those honoured included:

  • Colette, Rachilde, Élisabeth de Gramont, Lucie Delarue-Mardrus and Aurel, from the French side
  • Gertrude Stein, Djuna Barnes, Mina Loy and Anna Wickham, from the American, English and Australian side
  • Renée Vivien, honoured after her death
  • Romaine Brooks, included for the memoirs she was then writing

Gertrude Stein's evening was the most elaborate. Virgil Thomson set her writing to music, there were readings, and Barney supplied a French translation of passages from The Making of Americans. The Académie also raised the money to print Djuna Barnes's Ladies Almanack in 1928. Barney kept up with Mina Loy, who had joined the circle in 1923, long after Loy left Paris in 1936, and she wrote a foreword to a posthumous Stein volume, As Fine as Melanctha, for Yale in 1954.

How she lived, and said she lived

Barney was a lesbian, said so, and wrote about it under her own name from her first book onwards. She did not use codes, did not marry for cover, and did not present her private life as anybody's tragedy. In 1928, the year Radclyffe Hall's The Well of Loneliness was tried and banned as obscene in Britain, Barney had already been publishing love poetry addressed to women for twenty-eight years and had been receiving women writers at 20 rue Jacob for nineteen.

Barney standing, in a plumed hat, photographed by Frances Benjamin Johnston between about 1890 and 1910 — the decades her first love poetry appeared under her own name. Public domain. (Frances Benjamin Johnston, Library of Congress · Public domain)

She also refused monogamy, and refused it as a position rather than as a habit she failed to break. She argued against jealousy in print as early as 1901 and kept several attachments running at once for most of her life. This was harder on the women who loved her than on her. Romaine Brooks wanted one person and got a household; the only lover who is said to have shared Barney's view of the arrangement without strain was Dolly Wilde.

The first of the public affairs was with the courtesan Liane de Pougy in 1899, and de Pougy turned it into a bestselling novel, Idylle saphique, in 1901. The long attachments came after it, and several of them overlapped:

  • Renée Vivien, the poet, from 1900. The two studied Greek together, translated Sappho, and travelled to Lesbos with a plan for a school of women poets that came to nothing. Vivien broke with her, and died in 1909 at thirty-two.
  • Élisabeth de Gramont, Duchesse de Clermont-Tonnerre, from around 1910. In 1918 the two wrote themselves a marriage contract. It lasted until Gramont's death in 1954.
  • Romaine Brooks, the painter, from before the First World War and for more than fifty years. They built a house on the Riviera with two wings joined by a dining room, so that Brooks could have silence when she wanted it.
  • Dolly Wilde, Oscar Wilde's niece, from 1927 until her death in 1941. Barney edited a memorial volume for her ten years later.
  • Janine Lahovary, the wife of a retired Romanian ambassador, from 1958. They met by chance in Nice when Barney was in her eighties; the relationship ran fourteen years and was kept secret for seven.

It was the Lahovary years that ended the friendship with Romaine Brooks.

Dame Evangeline Musset

In 1928 the American writer Djuna Barnes published Ladies Almanack, a short comic book in mock-archaic English, privately printed in Paris with money the Académie des Femmes raised. It is a roman à clef about Barney's circle, laid out as an almanac with a chapter for each month.

Barney is its heroine, Dame Evangeline Musset, who begins as a scandal, arrives at what the book calls a witty and learned fifty, spends her time rescuing women in distress and dispensing advice, and is canonised at the end. The other women of the salon appear under names of the same sort. Barney was delighted by it and reread it for the rest of her life.

The war years in Italy

Barney was a pacifist through the First World War. She stayed in Paris rather than go home to America, held antiwar gatherings at the Temple à l'Amitié, and did not join the Red Cross work that occupied most of her friends. The first and longest section of Pensées d'une Amazone, written in those years, is titled Les sexes adverses, la guerre et le féminisme, and it treats war as a male enterprise.

In 1939 she and Romaine Brooks left France for Italy and spent the Second World War at a villa outside Florence. The salon closed. During those years Barney wrote a book of wartime reminiscence and commentary, Memoirs of a European-American, which has never been published.

Anna Livia, who edited and translated a selection of Barney's writing in 1992 and read the manuscript, describes it as loyal to Mussolini and the Axis, and records that Barney wrote lightly of wars of extermination at a time when friends of hers were interned in camps. Livia reads the loyalty as running through Barney's conviction that tradition, art, and personal freedom had to prevail over communism. Her biographers treat the passages about Jewish people as the most troubling thing she left behind, and note the contradiction with her own family: her mother's father, Samuel Pike, was of Dutch-Jewish descent, and Barney had written about that background with pride in her early books.

The same years hold facts that run the other way. She gave up her cabin on a New York-bound ship so that Jewish musicians could get out of Italy. Interviewed after the Allied victory there, she said that she and Brooks had been artists who knew too little about politics to take any part in them. The manuscript itself changes position before it ends: Livia dates the turn to the two of them watching the retreating German army blow up the bridges of Florence, and by the last pages Barney is writing as a pro-American pacifist.

She returned to Paris in 1946 and reopened the salon, which ran another twenty-two years.

Last years

In 1968 Barney lost 20 rue Jacob. Her landlord went to court over the state of the building, and at ninety-one she moved to the Hôtel Meurice, on the rue de Rivoli. The Fridays stopped. She and Romaine Brooks had by then broken over Janine Lahovary; Barney's last letter to Brooks came back unopened.

She died in Paris on 2 February 1972, aged ninety-five, after a heart attack and pneumonia. Her maid of many years, Berthe Cleyrergue, called the Friday funeral Mademoiselle's last Friday. She is buried at the Passy cemetery, above the Trocadéro, under a stone naming her as Remy de Gourmont's Amazon.

She left more than forty thousand letters, along with manuscripts and papers, to the Bibliothèque littéraire Jacques Doucet in Paris. That collection is where most of what is now known about the salon comes from.

Life events

  1. 1876

    Born 31 October in Dayton, Ohio, to Albert Clifford Barney, of a railroad-car fortune, and the painter Alice Pike Barney. Bilingual in French before her teens.

    Natalie Clifford Barney — French Women & Feminists in History: A Resource Guide; Anna Livia, Barney, Natalie Clifford (1876–1972), in Women in World History: A Biographical Encyclopedia (2002)

  2. 1899

    Meets the courtesan Liane de Pougy in Paris. De Pougy turns the affair into the novel Idylle saphique, published in 1901.

    Anna Livia, Barney, Natalie Clifford (1876–1972), in Women in World History: A Biographical Encyclopedia (2002)

  3. 1900

    Quelques portraits-sonnets de femmes is published, with portraits by her mother. Her father buys up the remaining stock and destroys the plates; she publishes anonymously or as Tryphé until his death. She begins her affair with Renée Vivien the same year.

    Natalie Clifford Barney — French Women & Feminists in History: A Resource Guide; Anna Livia, Barney, Natalie Clifford (1876–1972), in Women in World History: A Biographical Encyclopedia (2002)

  4. 1902

    Her father dies. The inheritance makes her independent for life, and she settles permanently in Paris.

    Anna Livia, Barney, Natalie Clifford (1876–1972), in Women in World History: A Biographical Encyclopedia (2002)

  5. 1909

    Takes the pavilion at 20 rue Jacob and starts the Friday salon. The garden holds the Temple à l'Amitié, a Doric folly of the early nineteenth century.

    Anna Livia, Barney, Natalie Clifford (1876–1972), in Women in World History: A Biographical Encyclopedia (2002); Temple de l'Amitié, 20 rue Jacob, Paris 6e — notice Mérimée PA00088663

  6. 1910

    Meets Remy de Gourmont. Éparpillements, her first book of epigrams, appears the same year.

    Anna Livia, Barney, Natalie Clifford (1876–1972), in Women in World History: A Biographical Encyclopedia (2002)

  7. 1912–1914

    Gourmont's open letters to her run fortnightly in the Mercure de France and appear in book form as Lettres à l'Amazone in 1914. The nickname is permanent from here.

    Remy de Gourmont, Lettres à l'Amazone (1914); Anna Livia, Barney, Natalie Clifford (1876–1972), in Women in World History: A Biographical Encyclopedia (2002)

  8. 1914–1918

    Stays in Paris through the war as a pacifist, holding antiwar gatherings at the Temple à l'Amitié rather than joining the Red Cross work of her friends.

    Anna Livia, Barney, Natalie Clifford (1876–1972), in Women in World History: A Biographical Encyclopedia (2002)

  9. 1920

    Pensées d'une Amazone published by Émile-Paul Frères — epigrams on war, feminism, love, literature and age, and the book she is most read for.

    Natalie Clifford Barney, Pensées d'une Amazone (1920)

  10. 1927

    Launches the Académie des Femmes, an answer to an Académie française that admitted no women. Gertrude Stein's evening includes settings by Virgil Thomson and Barney's French translation of The Making of Americans.

    Anna Livia, Barney, Natalie Clifford (1876–1972), in Women in World History: A Biographical Encyclopedia (2002)

  11. 1928

    The Académie funds the printing of Djuna Barnes's Ladies Almanack, a comic roman à clef of the circle in which Barney appears as Dame Evangeline Musset.

    Anna Livia, Barney, Natalie Clifford (1876–1972), in Women in World History: A Biographical Encyclopedia (2002)

  12. 1929

    Aventures de l'esprit, her memoir of the salon and its writers. It appears in English as Adventures of the Mind in 1992.

    Natalie Clifford Barney, Adventures of the Mind (Aventures de l'esprit, 1929), translated by John Spalding Gatton (1992)

  13. 1939–1946

    Leaves France for a villa outside Florence with Romaine Brooks and spends the Second World War in Italy. Writes the unpublished Memoirs of a European-American there. Returns to Paris in 1946 and reopens the salon.

    Anna Livia, Barney, Natalie Clifford (1876–1972), in Women in World History: A Biographical Encyclopedia (2002); Natalie Clifford Barney, A Perilous Advantage: The Best of Natalie Clifford Barney (edited and translated, with an afterword, by Anna Livia) (1992)

  14. 1960

    Souvenirs indiscrets, the second book of memoirs. Traits et portraits, her last book, follows in 1963.

    Anna Livia, Barney, Natalie Clifford (1876–1972), in Women in World History: A Biographical Encyclopedia (2002)

  15. 1968

    Loses 20 rue Jacob after a court case with her landlord over the state of the building, and moves to the Hôtel Meurice. The salon ends after fifty-nine years.

    Anna Livia, Barney, Natalie Clifford (1876–1972), in Women in World History: A Biographical Encyclopedia (2002)

  16. 1972

    Dies in Paris on 2 February, aged ninety-five, and is buried at the Passy cemetery. Her papers and some forty thousand letters go to the Bibliothèque littéraire Jacques Doucet.

    Anna Livia, Barney, Natalie Clifford (1876–1972), in Women in World History: A Biographical Encyclopedia (2002)

Natalie Clifford Barney quotes

Verbatim, as recorded by the witnesses of the era — sources on every quotation.

To judge a man, take him out of his world; to judge a woman, give her one.

Pour juger d'un homme, sortez-le de son milieu; pour juger d'une femme, donnez-lui le sien.

Natalie Clifford Barney, Pensées d'une Amazone (1920)
Motherhood? The child too confines the woman to itself, and then leaves her.

La maternité? L'enfant aussi limite à lui la femme,—et puis la délaisse.

Natalie Clifford Barney, Pensées d'une Amazone (1920)
We learn only what we already know.

On n'apprend que ce que l'on sait.

Natalie Clifford Barney, Pensées d'une Amazone (1920)
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Featured in these books

Cover of Ladies Almanack by Djuna Barnes

Ladies Almanack

by Djuna Barnes

How Natalie appears in its pages: The book's heroine — a wealthy Englishwoman of fifty who rescues women in distress, holds court at a tea table, and is canonised as a saint a third of the way through.

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The character Natalie inspired

Cover of The Well of Loneliness by Radclyffe Hall

The Well of Loneliness

by Radclyffe Hall

Valérie Seymour is invented, drawn from Natalie: The American writer whose Paris flat is the one room in the novel where nobody has to pretend. Radclyffe Hall drew her from Natalie Clifford Barney.

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People they knew

Documented connections — every one carries its source.

Illustrated portrait of Colette

Colette

  • Author
  • Journalist
  • Actor
  • +1

Met · 1906

Colette performed in the theatricals Barney staged for friends at 20 rue Jacob, and was one of the French writers the Académie des Femmes honoured from 1927. Suzanne Rodriguez's biography counts her among Barney's lovers, in the years around Colette's separation from Willy; the friendship outlasted the affair and ran until Colette's death in 1954. The start year is approximate — the sources place the two together from the middle of the 1900s without fixing a first meeting.

Anna Livia, Barney, Natalie Clifford (1876–1972), in Women in World History: A Biographical Encyclopedia (2002); Suzanne Rodriguez, Wild Heart: A Life — Natalie Clifford Barney's Journey from Victorian America to Belle Époque Paris (2002); Natalie Clifford Barney — French Women & Feminists in History: A Resource Guide

Illustrated portrait of Ezra Pound

Ezra Pound

  • Author
  • Poet
  • Editor
  • +1

Met · 1920

Pound was one of the writers Barney received at 20 rue Jacob during his Paris years, in a room she ran expressly to get American, British and French writers reading and translating one another. The start year is approximate: the Library of Congress guide names him among her regular guests without dating the introduction.

Natalie Clifford Barney — French Women & Feminists in History: A Resource Guide

Illustrated portrait of Gertrude Stein

Gertrude Stein

  • Author
  • Salon host
  • Patron

Met · 1927

Stein was among the writers Barney received at 20 rue Jacob, and Barney's Académie des Femmes gave her an evening in 1927: Virgil Thomson set her writing to music, there were readings, and Barney supplied a French translation of passages from The Making of Americans. Barney later wrote the foreword to the posthumous Stein volume As Fine as Melanctha, published by Yale in 1954. The date here is the Académie evening, not their first meeting, which the sources do not fix.

Anna Livia, Barney, Natalie Clifford (1876–1972), in Women in World History: A Biographical Encyclopedia (2002); Natalie Clifford Barney — French Women & Feminists in History: A Resource Guide

Illustrated portrait of Mina Loy

Mina Loy

  • Poet
  • Painter

Met · 1923–1936

Loy joined the circle at 20 rue Jacob on her return to Paris in 1923. Barney was fond of Loy's children, the two held similar views on love and monogamy, and Loy was among the writers the Académie des Femmes honoured from 1927. The friendship continued by letter after Loy left Paris in 1936; the end year marks her departure, not the end of the friendship.

Natalie Barney — Mina Loy: Navigating the Avant-Garde; Anna Livia, Barney, Natalie Clifford (1876–1972), in Women in World History: A Biographical Encyclopedia (2002)

Illustrated portrait of Lucie Delarue-Mardrus

Lucie Delarue-Mardrus

  • Poet
  • Author
  • Journalist
  • +1

Met · 1902

Delarue-Mardrus wrote Barney the poems later published as Nos secrètes amours between about 1902 and 1905, while she was married to Joseph Charles Mardrus. Mirande Lucien, who edited them from the manuscripts Delarue-Mardrus gave Barney, describes a brief and difficult affair in which the poet was the novice and Barney, the younger woman, the one who took other lovers. Barney arranged the confidential posthumous printing of the poems in 1951, six years after Delarue-Mardrus died, and edited the text as she did so. Delarue-Mardrus was among the writers the Académie des Femmes honoured from 1927.

Lucie Delarue-Mardrus, Nos secrètes amours (éd. Mirande Lucien) (2023); Anna Livia, Barney, Natalie Clifford (1876–1972), in Women in World History: A Biographical Encyclopedia (2002)

Illustrated portrait of Élisabeth de Gramont

Élisabeth de Gramont

  • Author

Partner of · 1910–1954

Barney and Gramont met around the time the rue Jacob salon began and were together from about 1910. On 20 June 1918, at the Hôtel de l'Europe et Villa Victoria in Aix-les-Bains, they wrote and signed a private marriage contract on hotel letterhead: it acknowledged both women's other affairs and set no condition beyond the bond itself, ending 'the one I marry shall not be called my wife, nor my slave, nor my spouse ... but my one, my eternal mate'. Gramont was married to the Duc de Clermont-Tonnerre at the time; the divorce came in 1920. The relationship lasted until Gramont's death in 1954. Barney also wrote a prose portrait of her, The Woman Who Lives with Me, printed in an edition of two copies.

Francesco Rapazzini, Elisabeth de Gramont, Natalie Barney's "eternal mate" (2005); James J. Conway, My one, my eternal mate (2018); Anna Livia, Barney, Natalie Clifford (1876–1972), in Women in World History: A Biographical Encyclopedia (2002)

Illustrated portrait of Radclyffe Hall

Radclyffe Hall

  • Author
  • Poet

Met

Hall met Barney and the painter Romaine Brooks through the women she knew in London, and in 1928 she put Barney into The Well of Loneliness as the salon hostess Valérie Seymour, who is the first person Stephen Gordon meets in Paris. No year is given for the meeting, so none is recorded here. Accounts written since have also placed Hall among the guests at Barney's Friday salon at 20 rue Jacob; that is a separate assertion and no source consulted for this record documents it, so no attendance edge is claimed.

Jeanne A. Ojala, Hall, Radclyffe (1880–1943), in Women in World History: A Biographical Encyclopedia (2002); Radclyffe Hall, The Well of Loneliness (1928), Book Three, Chapter Thirty-one

Illustrated portrait of Rachilde

Rachilde

  • Author
  • Critic
  • Playwright
  • +1

Met · 1927

Barney's Académie des Femmes, the run of salon evenings she began in 1927 to honour women writers, counted Rachilde among the French writers it honoured, alongside Colette, Élisabeth de Gramont and Lucie Delarue-Mardrus. The start year is the Académie's rather than a first meeting: the two moved in overlapping Paris literary circles well before it, and the reference accounts do not date their first meeting.

Anna Livia, Barney, Natalie Clifford (1876–1972), in Women in World History: A Biographical Encyclopedia (2002); Vallette, Marguerite (1860–1953), in Women in World History: A Biographical Encyclopedia (2002)

Illustrated portrait of Remy de Gourmont

Remy de Gourmont

  • Critic
  • Author
  • Poet

Met · 1910–1915

Barney sought Gourmont out in 1910, nineteen years after the lupus had driven him out of company, and drew him back into it with visits, flowers, drives and river trips. Out of the friendship came the open letters he published fortnightly in the Mercure de France through 1912 and 1913 and collected as Lettres à l'Amazone in 1914. He gave her the name l'Amazone, after the way she rode side-saddle in the Bois de Boulogne, and she carried it until her death in 1972. The friendship ended with his death in September 1915.

Remy de Gourmont, Lettres à l'Amazone (1914); Anna Livia, Barney, Natalie Clifford (1876–1972), in Women in World History: A Biographical Encyclopedia (2002)

Illustrated portrait of Janet Flanner

Janet Flanner

  • Journalist
  • Author
  • Critic
  • +1

Met

Flanner belonged to Barney's circle from the 1920s. Djuna Barnes's Ladies Almanack of 1928, the comic roman à clef about that circle, puts Flanner and Solita Solano in it as a pair of journalists called Nip and Tuck.

Flanner, Janet (1892–1978); Natalie Clifford Barney — French Women & Feminists in History: A Resource Guide

Illustrated portrait of Renée Vivien

Renée Vivien

  • Poet
  • Translator
  • Author

Partner of · 1900–1904

Violet Shillito introduced them in Paris in 1899. The affair itself lasted about a year and broke in the summer of 1901, after Shillito died of typhoid and Vivien held herself responsible for having let the friendship go. Barney spent the following years trying to win her back, and in 1904 the two travelled to Mytilene on Lesbos together with a plan for a school of women poets that came to nothing. The end year records the last of that contact rather than the end of the affair.

Renée Vivien, enfant terrible of the Belle Époque? (2024); Renée Vivien — biography; Karla Jay, The Amazon and the Page: Natalie Clifford Barney and Renée Vivien (1988)

Illustrated portrait of Romaine Brooks

Romaine Brooks

  • Painter

Partner of · 1915–1968

Brooks and Barney met in 1915 and were together for more than fifty years. Barney refused monogamy as a matter of principle and was already attached to Élisabeth de Gramont, so the relationship ran alongside her others; Brooks tolerated the arrangement and gave one recorded ultimatum, over Dolly Wilde. They built the Villa Trait d'Union on the Riviera with two separate wings joined by a shared dining room. It ended in Brooks's last years, over Barney's relationship with Janine Lahovary: Brooks stopped answering and Barney's last letter came back unopened.

Brooks, Romaine (1874–1970) — Women in World History: A Biographical Encyclopedia; Diana Souhami, Wild Girls: Paris, Sappho, and Art — The Lives and Loves of Natalie Barney and Romaine Brooks (2005); Anna Livia, Barney, Natalie Clifford (1876–1972), in Women in World History: A Biographical Encyclopedia (2002)

Sat for a portrait by · 1920

Portrait de Natalie Clifford Barney, dit « L'Amazone », oil on canvas, signed and dated Romaine 1920. Barney sits in a fur coat at a writing table wearing a sapphire necklace Brooks had given her, with a black ceramic horse bolting across the desk in front of her — a joke on the nickname Remy de Gourmont had given her. The museum reads the background as the courtyard of 20 rue Jacob. Shown at the Salon de la Société nationale des beaux-arts in 1922 as number 135. Brooks gave it to the Musée Carnavalet in 1966; inventory P2302.

Romaine Brooks, Portrait de Natalie Clifford Barney, dit « L'Amazone » (1920) — inventaire P2302

Natalie Clifford Barney’s Places

The cataloged places connected to Natalie Clifford Barney — through the books, and through the documented record.

Places you can enter today appear first, followed by addresses to see from outside and sites that have vanished.

Organizations

Founded · 1927

Académie des Femmes

Both sources credit the Académie des Femmes to Barney alone and date it to 1927. Anna Livia writes that Barney launched it as a circle where women writers could share their work and find support, and reads it as a second attempt at the school of women poets she and Renée Vivien had failed to start on Lesbos. Anne Charles writes that Barney had long considered an alliance of women writers and carried the plan out in 1927.

Anne Charles, Barney Opens Her Paris Salon (2022), Summary of Event, read 2026-08-10; Anna Livia, Barney, Natalie Clifford (1876–1972), in Women in World History: A Biographical Encyclopedia (2002)

Questions about Natalie Clifford Barney

Who was Natalie Clifford Barney?

An American writer (1876–1972) who lived in Paris from 1902 and ran a literary salon at 20 rue Jacob for nearly sixty years. She wrote in French: sonnets, plays, two books of memoirs, a novel, and three volumes of epigrams, of which Pensées d'une Amazone (1920) is the best known. In 1927 she founded the Académie des Femmes to honour women writers.

Why was Natalie Barney called the Amazon?

The critic Remy de Gourmont gave her the name around 1910, after the riding habit she wore for her morning rides in the Bois de Boulogne — riding side-saddle is monter en amazone in French. He addressed a series of open letters to her as l'Amazone in the Mercure de France in 1912 and 1913, collected as Lettres à l'Amazone in 1914. The name followed her the rest of her life and is on her gravestone at Passy.

Where was Natalie Barney's salon, and can you visit it?

At 20 rue Jacob in the sixth arrondissement of Paris, from 1909 to 1968. It is a private pavilion behind a courtyard, and it is not open to the public. The Doric garden folly known as the Temple à l'Amitié still stands there and has been a listed historic monument since January 1947, but it is on private ground and cannot be visited.

Who went to the salon at 20 rue Jacob?

Colette, Gertrude Stein, Ezra Pound, James Joyce, T. S. Eliot, Marcel Proust, Paul Valéry, Ernest Hemingway, Djuna Barnes, Mina Loy, Sinclair Lewis and Élisabeth de Gramont, among many others, along with publishers, critics and scholars. Barney's stated purpose was to get American, British and French writers reading and translating one another.

What was the Académie des Femmes?

A run of salon evenings Barney began in 1927, each devoted to one woman writer, set up in answer to the Académie française, which had admitted only men since 1635 and would not elect a woman until 1980. Those honoured included Colette, Rachilde, Lucie Delarue-Mardrus, Élisabeth de Gramont, Gertrude Stein, Djuna Barnes, Mina Loy and Anna Wickham, and Renée Vivien after her death. It also raised the money to print Djuna Barnes's Ladies Almanack in 1928.

Was Natalie Barney a lesbian?

Yes, and she said so publicly from her twenties until her death at ninety-five, which almost no woman of her generation did. Her first book, in 1900, was love poetry addressed to women and published under her own name. She also refused monogamy as a matter of principle, arguing against jealousy in print as early as 1901. Her long attachments were to Renée Vivien, Élisabeth de Gramont, Romaine Brooks, Dolly Wilde and Janine Lahovary.

Is Natalie Barney a character in Djuna Barnes's Ladies Almanack?

Yes. Ladies Almanack, which the American writer Djuna Barnes published privately in Paris in 1928, is a comic roman à clef about Barney's circle, and Barney is its heroine, Dame Evangeline Musset. Barney's Académie des Femmes paid for the printing, and Barney reread the book for the rest of her life.

What did Natalie Barney do during the Second World War?

She spent it in Italy. In 1939 she and Romaine Brooks left France for a villa outside Florence, and she did not return to Paris until 1946. There she wrote an unpublished book of wartime commentary, Memoirs of a European-American. Anna Livia, who read the manuscript and translated a selection of Barney's work in 1992, describes it as loyal to Mussolini and the Axis and records that Barney wrote lightly of wars of extermination while friends of hers were interned in camps; her biographers treat its passages about Jewish people as the most troubling part of her record, and note that her mother's father, Samuel Pike, was of Dutch-Jewish descent. In the same years she gave up her cabin on a New York-bound ship so that Jewish musicians could leave Italy, and by the end of the manuscript her position has reversed to a pro-American pacifism.

How did Natalie Barney die, and where is she buried?

She died in Paris on 2 February 1972, aged ninety-five, after a heart attack and pneumonia. She had left 20 rue Jacob in 1968 after losing a court case with her landlord and was living at the Hôtel Meurice. She is buried at the Passy cemetery, under a stone identifying her as the Amazon of Remy de Gourmont.

Where are Natalie Barney's papers?

At the Bibliothèque littéraire Jacques Doucet in Paris, which holds her manuscripts and more than forty thousand letters. Her correspondence with Romaine Brooks is held separately, in American collections.

Sourced claims

Every connection the graph holds for Natalie, with the evidence behind it.

Hosted gatherings at · 1909–1970

20 rue Jacob

The Fridays began in October 1909 and ran weekly from five to eight, with thirty to thirty-five regulars on an ordinary week and up to two hundred for a set piece. They stopped for the Second World War, which Barney spent in Italy, and resumed in 1949. From 1927 a run of them was given over to the Académie des Femmes, one Friday per woman writer.

Anne Charles, Barney Opens Her Paris Salon (2022); Baptiste Essevaz-Roulet and William Pesson, Le temple de l'amitié, rue Jacob à Paris, mythes et révélations (2008); Gregory Stephenson, Conversations with Berthe Cleyrergue, Housekeeper to the Legendary Amazon, Nathalie Clifford Barney (2014); Natalie Clifford Barney — French Women & Feminists in History: A Resource Guide

Lived at · 1909–1970

20 rue Jacob

Barney took the lease on the courtyard pavilion, its veranda, the garden and the Temple à l'Amitié in April 1909, and lived there for sixty years. The end year is approximate: the property was divided into a copropriété in 1966, the buyer of the pavilion obtained an eviction order against her, and she left the shored-up house at the end of the 1960s meaning to return in the spring. She died at the Hôtel Meurice in February 1972 without going back.

Baptiste Essevaz-Roulet and William Pesson, Le temple de l'amitié, rue Jacob à Paris, mythes et révélations (2008); Suzanne Rodriguez, Wild Heart: A Life — Natalie Clifford Barney's Journey from Victorian America to Belle Époque Paris (2002); Natalie Clifford Barney — French Women & Feminists in History: A Resource Guide

Met · 1906

Colette

Colette performed in the theatricals Barney staged for friends at 20 rue Jacob, and was one of the French writers the Académie des Femmes honoured from 1927. Suzanne Rodriguez's biography counts her among Barney's lovers, in the years around Colette's separation from Willy; the friendship outlasted the affair and ran until Colette's death in 1954. The start year is approximate — the sources place the two together from the middle of the 1900s without fixing a first meeting.

Anna Livia, Barney, Natalie Clifford (1876–1972), in Women in World History: A Biographical Encyclopedia (2002); Suzanne Rodriguez, Wild Heart: A Life — Natalie Clifford Barney's Journey from Victorian America to Belle Époque Paris (2002); Natalie Clifford Barney — French Women & Feminists in History: A Resource Guide

Met · 1920

Ezra Pound

Pound was one of the writers Barney received at 20 rue Jacob during his Paris years, in a room she ran expressly to get American, British and French writers reading and translating one another. The start year is approximate: the Library of Congress guide names him among her regular guests without dating the introduction.

Natalie Clifford Barney — French Women & Feminists in History: A Resource Guide

Met · 1927

Gertrude Stein

Stein was among the writers Barney received at 20 rue Jacob, and Barney's Académie des Femmes gave her an evening in 1927: Virgil Thomson set her writing to music, there were readings, and Barney supplied a French translation of passages from The Making of Americans. Barney later wrote the foreword to the posthumous Stein volume As Fine as Melanctha, published by Yale in 1954. The date here is the Académie evening, not their first meeting, which the sources do not fix.

Anna Livia, Barney, Natalie Clifford (1876–1972), in Women in World History: A Biographical Encyclopedia (2002); Natalie Clifford Barney — French Women & Feminists in History: A Resource Guide

Met · 1923–1936

Mina Loy

Loy joined the circle at 20 rue Jacob on her return to Paris in 1923. Barney was fond of Loy's children, the two held similar views on love and monogamy, and Loy was among the writers the Académie des Femmes honoured from 1927. The friendship continued by letter after Loy left Paris in 1936; the end year marks her departure, not the end of the friendship.

Natalie Barney — Mina Loy: Navigating the Avant-Garde; Anna Livia, Barney, Natalie Clifford (1876–1972), in Women in World History: A Biographical Encyclopedia (2002)

Met · 1902

Lucie Delarue-Mardrus

Delarue-Mardrus wrote Barney the poems later published as Nos secrètes amours between about 1902 and 1905, while she was married to Joseph Charles Mardrus. Mirande Lucien, who edited them from the manuscripts Delarue-Mardrus gave Barney, describes a brief and difficult affair in which the poet was the novice and Barney, the younger woman, the one who took other lovers. Barney arranged the confidential posthumous printing of the poems in 1951, six years after Delarue-Mardrus died, and edited the text as she did so. Delarue-Mardrus was among the writers the Académie des Femmes honoured from 1927.

Lucie Delarue-Mardrus, Nos secrètes amours (éd. Mirande Lucien) (2023); Anna Livia, Barney, Natalie Clifford (1876–1972), in Women in World History: A Biographical Encyclopedia (2002)

Partner of · 1910–1954

Élisabeth de Gramont

Barney and Gramont met around the time the rue Jacob salon began and were together from about 1910. On 20 June 1918, at the Hôtel de l'Europe et Villa Victoria in Aix-les-Bains, they wrote and signed a private marriage contract on hotel letterhead: it acknowledged both women's other affairs and set no condition beyond the bond itself, ending 'the one I marry shall not be called my wife, nor my slave, nor my spouse ... but my one, my eternal mate'. Gramont was married to the Duc de Clermont-Tonnerre at the time; the divorce came in 1920. The relationship lasted until Gramont's death in 1954. Barney also wrote a prose portrait of her, The Woman Who Lives with Me, printed in an edition of two copies.

Francesco Rapazzini, Elisabeth de Gramont, Natalie Barney's "eternal mate" (2005); James J. Conway, My one, my eternal mate (2018); Anna Livia, Barney, Natalie Clifford (1876–1972), in Women in World History: A Biographical Encyclopedia (2002)

Founded · 1927

Académie des Femmes

Both sources credit the Académie des Femmes to Barney alone and date it to 1927. Anna Livia writes that Barney launched it as a circle where women writers could share their work and find support, and reads it as a second attempt at the school of women poets she and Renée Vivien had failed to start on Lesbos. Anne Charles writes that Barney had long considered an alliance of women writers and carried the plan out in 1927.

Anne Charles, Barney Opens Her Paris Salon (2022), Summary of Event, read 2026-08-10; Anna Livia, Barney, Natalie Clifford (1876–1972), in Women in World History: A Biographical Encyclopedia (2002)

Met

Radclyffe Hall

Hall met Barney and the painter Romaine Brooks through the women she knew in London, and in 1928 she put Barney into The Well of Loneliness as the salon hostess Valérie Seymour, who is the first person Stephen Gordon meets in Paris. No year is given for the meeting, so none is recorded here. Accounts written since have also placed Hall among the guests at Barney's Friday salon at 20 rue Jacob; that is a separate assertion and no source consulted for this record documents it, so no attendance edge is claimed.

Jeanne A. Ojala, Hall, Radclyffe (1880–1943), in Women in World History: A Biographical Encyclopedia (2002); Radclyffe Hall, The Well of Loneliness (1928), Book Three, Chapter Thirty-one

Met · 1927

Rachilde

Barney's Académie des Femmes, the run of salon evenings she began in 1927 to honour women writers, counted Rachilde among the French writers it honoured, alongside Colette, Élisabeth de Gramont and Lucie Delarue-Mardrus. The start year is the Académie's rather than a first meeting: the two moved in overlapping Paris literary circles well before it, and the reference accounts do not date their first meeting.

Anna Livia, Barney, Natalie Clifford (1876–1972), in Women in World History: A Biographical Encyclopedia (2002); Vallette, Marguerite (1860–1953), in Women in World History: A Biographical Encyclopedia (2002)

Met · 1910–1915

Remy de Gourmont

Barney sought Gourmont out in 1910, nineteen years after the lupus had driven him out of company, and drew him back into it with visits, flowers, drives and river trips. Out of the friendship came the open letters he published fortnightly in the Mercure de France through 1912 and 1913 and collected as Lettres à l'Amazone in 1914. He gave her the name l'Amazone, after the way she rode side-saddle in the Bois de Boulogne, and she carried it until her death in 1972. The friendship ended with his death in September 1915.

Remy de Gourmont, Lettres à l'Amazone (1914); Anna Livia, Barney, Natalie Clifford (1876–1972), in Women in World History: A Biographical Encyclopedia (2002)

Met

Janet Flanner

Flanner belonged to Barney's circle from the 1920s. Djuna Barnes's Ladies Almanack of 1928, the comic roman à clef about that circle, puts Flanner and Solita Solano in it as a pair of journalists called Nip and Tuck.

Flanner, Janet (1892–1978); Natalie Clifford Barney — French Women & Feminists in History: A Resource Guide

Partner of · 1900–1904

Renée Vivien

Violet Shillito introduced them in Paris in 1899. The affair itself lasted about a year and broke in the summer of 1901, after Shillito died of typhoid and Vivien held herself responsible for having let the friendship go. Barney spent the following years trying to win her back, and in 1904 the two travelled to Mytilene on Lesbos together with a plan for a school of women poets that came to nothing. The end year records the last of that contact rather than the end of the affair.

Renée Vivien, enfant terrible of the Belle Époque? (2024); Renée Vivien — biography; Karla Jay, The Amazon and the Page: Natalie Clifford Barney and Renée Vivien (1988)

Partner of · 1915–1968

Romaine Brooks

Brooks and Barney met in 1915 and were together for more than fifty years. Barney refused monogamy as a matter of principle and was already attached to Élisabeth de Gramont, so the relationship ran alongside her others; Brooks tolerated the arrangement and gave one recorded ultimatum, over Dolly Wilde. They built the Villa Trait d'Union on the Riviera with two separate wings joined by a shared dining room. It ended in Brooks's last years, over Barney's relationship with Janine Lahovary: Brooks stopped answering and Barney's last letter came back unopened.

Brooks, Romaine (1874–1970) — Women in World History: A Biographical Encyclopedia; Diana Souhami, Wild Girls: Paris, Sappho, and Art — The Lives and Loves of Natalie Barney and Romaine Brooks (2005); Anna Livia, Barney, Natalie Clifford (1876–1972), in Women in World History: A Biographical Encyclopedia (2002)

Sat for a portrait by · 1920

Romaine Brooks

Portrait de Natalie Clifford Barney, dit « L'Amazone », oil on canvas, signed and dated Romaine 1920. Barney sits in a fur coat at a writing table wearing a sapphire necklace Brooks had given her, with a black ceramic horse bolting across the desk in front of her — a joke on the nickname Remy de Gourmont had given her. The museum reads the background as the courtyard of 20 rue Jacob. Shown at the Salon de la Société nationale des beaux-arts in 1922 as number 135. Brooks gave it to the Musée Carnavalet in 1966; inventory P2302.

Romaine Brooks, Portrait de Natalie Clifford Barney, dit « L'Amazone » (1920) — inventaire P2302

Depicted in · 1928

The Well of Loneliness

Barney appears in the novel as Valérie Seymour, and the Paris chapters put Stephen Gordon inside the circle Barney kept. The book calls Valérie a kind of lighthouse in a storm-swept ocean, and gives her the salon where the other characters can stop pretending. Radclyffe Hall's author's note declares every character imaginary, which is why this is filed as a portrayal at one remove.

Anna Livia, Barney, Natalie Clifford (1876–1972), in Women in World History: A Biographical Encyclopedia (2002); Radclyffe Hall, The Well of Loneliness (1928)

Inspired · 1928

The Well of Loneliness

Hall drew the salon hostess Valérie Seymour from Natalie Clifford Barney, the American writer who had lived in Paris since 1902 and had been receiving women writers at 20 rue Jacob since 1909. The novel gives Valérie the traits Barney was known for — American, independently rich, bilingual, writing outspoken sketches in French, and living without concealment — and makes her the one character in the book wholly at ease with herself.

Anna Livia, Barney, Natalie Clifford (1876–1972), in Women in World History: A Biographical Encyclopedia (2002); Radclyffe Hall, The Well of Loneliness (1928)

Sources and further reading

  • Natalie Clifford Barney — French Women & Feminists in History: A Resource Guide
  • Anna Livia, Barney, Natalie Clifford (1876–1972), in Women in World History: A Biographical Encyclopedia (2002)
  • Natalie Clifford Barney, A Perilous Advantage: The Best of Natalie Clifford Barney (edited and translated, with an afterword, by Anna Livia) (1992)
  • Natalie Clifford Barney, Pensées d'une Amazone (1920)
  • Natalie Clifford Barney, Adventures of the Mind (Aventures de l'esprit, 1929), translated by John Spalding Gatton (1992)
  • Natalie Clifford Barney, Aventures de l'esprit (1929)
  • Remy de Gourmont, Lettres à l'Amazone (1914)
  • Temple de l'Amitié, 20 rue Jacob, Paris 6e — notice Mérimée PA00088663
  • George Wickes, The Amazon of Letters: The Life and Loves of Natalie Barney (1976)
  • Suzanne Rodriguez, Wild Heart: A Life — Natalie Clifford Barney's Journey from Victorian America to Belle Époque Paris (2002)
  • Karla Jay, The Amazon and the Page: Natalie Clifford Barney and Renée Vivien (1988)
  • Shari Benstock, Women of the Left Bank: Paris, 1900–1940 (1986)
  • Diana Souhami, Wild Girls: Paris, Sappho, and Art — The Lives and Loves of Natalie Barney and Romaine Brooks (2005)
  • Natalie Barney — Mina Loy: Navigating the Avant-Garde
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