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Ernest Hemingway quotes about love

29 quotations, each verified against its source and credited to the work it comes from — the wording as Ernest Hemingway wrote or said it, not as the internet passes it around. Drawn from the 165 in the full collection. Page 1 of 2.

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No one you love is ever dead.
Ernest Hemingway, letter to Sara Murphy (1935)
That is not love. That is only passion and lust. When you love you wish to do things for. You wish to sacrifice for. You wish to serve.
The priest (dialogue) · Ernest Hemingway, A Farewell to Arms (1929), Book One, Chapter 11
No I’m not. But life isn’t hard to manage when you’ve nothing to lose.
Catherine Barkley (dialogue) · Ernest Hemingway, A Farewell to Arms (1929), Book Two, Chapter 21
Poor, poor dear Cat. And this was the price you paid for sleeping together. This was the end of the trap. This was what people got for loving each other.
Frederic (narration) · Ernest Hemingway, A Farewell to Arms (1929), Book Five, Chapter 41
But after I had got them out and shut the door and turned off the light it wasn’t any good. It was like saying good-by to a statue. After a while I went out and left the hospital and walked back to the hotel in the rain.
Frederic (narration) · Ernest Hemingway, A Farewell to Arms (1929), Book Five, Chapter 41
God knows I had not wanted to fall in love with her. I had not wanted to fall in love with any one.
Frederic (narration) · Ernest Hemingway, A Farewell to Arms (1929), Book Two, Chapter 14
It’s all right. Keep right on lying to me. That’s what I want you to do.
Catherine Barkley (dialogue) · Ernest Hemingway, A Farewell to Arms (1929), Book Two, Chapter 16
There isn’t any me. I’m you. Don’t make up a separate me.
Catherine Barkley (dialogue) · Ernest Hemingway, A Farewell to Arms (1929), Book Two, Chapter 18
Only being sent away from you. You’re my religion. You’re all I’ve got.
Catherine Barkley (dialogue) · Ernest Hemingway, A Farewell to Arms (1929), Book Two, Chapter 18
We could feel alone when we were together, alone against the others.
Frederic (narration) · Ernest Hemingway, A Farewell to Arms (1929), Book Four, Chapter 34
The war seemed as far away as the football games of some one else’s college.
Frederic (narration) · Ernest Hemingway, A Farewell to Arms (1929), Book Five, Chapter 38
Oh, darling, I want you so much I want to be you too.
Catherine Barkley (dialogue) · Ernest Hemingway, A Farewell to Arms (1929), Book Five, Chapter 38
Why, darling, I don’t live at all when I’m not with you.
Catherine Barkley (dialogue) · Ernest Hemingway, A Farewell to Arms (1929), Book Five, Chapter 38
We mustn’t. Because there’s only us two and in the world there’s all the rest of them. If anything comes between us we’re gone and then they have us.
Catherine Barkley (dialogue) · Ernest Hemingway, A Farewell to Arms (1929), Book Two, Chapter 21
We knew the baby was very close now and it gave us both a feeling as though something were hurrying us and we could not lose any time together.
Frederic (narration) · Ernest Hemingway, A Farewell to Arms (1929), Book Five, Chapter 40
I knew I did not love Catherine Barkley nor had any idea of loving her. This was a game, like bridge, in which you said things instead of playing cards.
Frederic (narration) · Ernest Hemingway, A Farewell to Arms (1929), Book One, Chapter 6
The night can be a dreadful time for lonely people once their loneliness has started.
Frederic (narration) · Ernest Hemingway, A Farewell to Arms (1929), Book Four, Chapter 34
Because we’re going to have a strange life.
Catherine Barkley (dialogue) · Ernest Hemingway, A Farewell to Arms (1929), Book One, Chapter 5
“Hell,” I said, “I love you enough now. What do you want to do? Ruin me?” “Yes. I want to ruin you.” “Good,” I said, “that’s what I want too.”
Frederic and Catherine (exchange) · Ernest Hemingway, A Farewell to Arms (1929), Book Five, Chapter 39
You’ll die then. Fight or die. That’s what people do. They don’t marry.
Ferguson (dialogue) · Ernest Hemingway, A Farewell to Arms (1929), Book Two, Chapter 17
It was as though we met again after each of us had been away on a long journey.
Frederic (narration) · Ernest Hemingway, A Farewell to Arms (1929), Book Two, Chapter 17
“They won’t get us,” I said. “Because you’re too brave. Nothing ever happens to the brave.”
Frederic Henry (dialogue) · Ernest Hemingway, A Farewell to Arms (1929), Book Two, Chapter 21
It’s not deserting from the army. It’s only the Italian army.
Catherine Barkley (dialogue) · Ernest Hemingway, A Farewell to Arms (1929), Book Four, Chapter 34
“Oh, Jake,” Brett said, “we could have had such a damned good time together.”
Brett Ashley (dialogue) · Ernest Hemingway, The Sun Also Rises (1926), Book Three, Chapter 19
“Yes,” I said. “Isn’t it pretty to think so?”
Jake Barnes (dialogue) · Ernest Hemingway, The Sun Also Rises (1926), Book Three, Chapter 19

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