Memoirs of a Dutiful Daughter
Simone de Beauvoir
Memoirs of a Dutiful Daughter
The first volume of Beauvoir's memoirs, from a bourgeois Catholic childhood in Paris to intellectual independence at the Sorbonne.
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Simone de Beauvoir
A brief account of Beauvoir's mother's final illness and of a daughter confronting the body, care, memory, and grief.
After Françoise de Beauvoir falls and enters the hospital, doctors discover cancer. Simone de Beauvoir and her sister Hélène care for their mother through the final weeks while Beauvoir reexamines their difficult family history and the medical management of dying.
The book stays close to practical events: hospital rooms, tests, pain, nursing, food, visits, and decisions about what to tell a patient. Beauvoir's philosophical reputation does not protect her from the shock of seeing her mother as a vulnerable body and as a person separate from the role of mother.
The title carries deliberate tension. The death may look medically manageable from outside, but no death is easy for the person living it or for those who must understand the end of a relationship that formed them.
Françoise de Beauvoir is hospitalized after a fall, and an operation reveals advanced cancer.
Her daughters organize care while doctors use the period's paternalistic practice of withholding the diagnosis from the patient.
Daily attention to the body brings back memories of conflict, dependence, and love, making the final weeks both immediate and retrospective.
It is Beauvoir's shortest and most direct memoir, with little background required.
Read it after Memoirs of a Dutiful Daughter if you want to understand how the mother-daughter relationship changes across the two books.
1964
Gallimard publishes Une Mort très douce in Paris.
English editions
Translations publish the work under the title A Very Easy Death; dates and wording vary by edition.
Memoirs of a Dutiful Daughter
Simone de Beauvoir
The first volume of Beauvoir's memoirs, from a bourgeois Catholic childhood in Paris to intellectual independence at the Sorbonne.
Read our takeThe Coming of Age
Simone de Beauvoir
A wide study of how societies understand old age and how material conditions shape the lives of older people.
Read our takeAfter Françoise de Beauvoir falls and enters the hospital, doctors discover cancer. Simone de Beauvoir and her sister Hélène care for their mother through the final weeks while Beauvoir reexamines their difficult family history and the medical management of dying.
Gallimard first published Une Mort très douce in French in 1964.
Yes. A Very Easy Death is one of the clearest starting points for Simone de Beauvoir.