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She Came to Stay

L'Invitée

by Simone de Beauvoir

Beauvoir's first novel: an established Parisian couple's promise of freedom is tested — and shattered — by the younger woman they invite into their lives.

Published
1943
Setting
Paris
Era
Shelf rating
4.6

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The story, briefly

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Simone de Beauvoir's first published novel is the story of Françoise Miquel and Pierre Labrousse, an established Parisian couple who share their theatre, their finances, and, they believe, their freedom from jealousy. When they invite Xavière Pagès, a young woman from Rouen, into their circle and Pierre begins an affair with her, the philosophical experiment of a shared trio turns into something Françoise's principles cannot control. The novel is the first fictional test of the argument about the other person that Beauvoir would state directly, four years later, in The Ethics of Ambiguity — with the ending pushed as far as any existentialist novel has ever taken the problem.

The story, in more detail

Beauvoir wrote L'Invitée between 1938 and the spring of 1941, working on it through the fall of France and the first year of the German occupation of Paris. Gallimard published it in the autumn of 1943 under her own name; it was her first novel to appear in print, though not her first to be written (When Things of the Spirit Come First had been rejected in the mid-1930s). Yvonne Moyse and Roger Senhouse's English translation appeared as She Came to Stay from Secker and Warburg in 1949.

The novel is closely tied to Beauvoir and Sartre's real 1935–37 trio with Olga Kosakiewicz, a Russian-born young woman from Rouen whom the couple had met and taken up. Beauvoir dedicates the novel to Olga on its title page — 'à Olga Kosakiewicz' — and the outline of the story (an older couple, the young woman they invite in, the older man's affair with her, the philosophical conflict that follows) tracks that biography closely. The trio's real end was collapse and a return to twos; the novel's end is more extreme, and it is the shape of the ending Beauvoir kept working on long after the real triangle had dissolved.

The philosophical argument the novel dramatises is the one Beauvoir would soon call the problem of the other. Françoise begins the book confident that she and Pierre together form a self-sufficient world into which Xavière can be admitted as a beloved third. The novel takes that confidence apart, one confrontation at a time, until Françoise is left with the same question Beauvoir would state discursively in The Ethics of Ambiguity in 1947: is another person's freedom something one can affirm without paying the cost of being not-them?

The full plot

What happens, beginning to end — the ending included. Open when you're ready.

Book I opens in Paris in October 1938, during the Munich crisis. Françoise Miquel — a woman in her early thirties, novelist, and administrative partner in the theatre her lover Pierre Labrousse runs — is closing up the theatre at three in the morning with the young stagehand and aspiring actor Gerbert. Pierre is in Rouen with Xavière, a young girl of nineteen the couple has taken up on their last visit. Françoise and Pierre have a long partnership that is honest about affairs and understood, on both sides, to leave them free. Their friend Élisabeth, Pierre's older sister and herself a painter, is the third witness of most of the book's Paris scenes. Book I is a portrait of the trio installing itself: Xavière moves to Paris, is put up first in a hotel and then in the couple's own building, is bought stockings and dinners and theatre tickets, and refuses to work.

Book II shifts the balance. Pierre begins an affair with Xavière — inside the trio, with Françoise's consent, and following the rule that neither Pierre nor Françoise would ever lie to the other. Françoise decides to affirm the affair as an expression of the freedom she and Pierre had promised each other. The novel then takes a hundred pages to show her failing, in small increments, to hold that position. Xavière is not the compliant beloved third the promise required. She is jealous, mocking, self-obsessed, unable to reciprocate affection in a form the couple can recognise, hostile to Françoise personally. Pierre's affection for her deepens rather than tapering. Françoise, watching, discovers that the philosophical position she had adopted has no purchase on the daily pain of watching another woman in her partner's life. She begins her own affair with Gerbert — the young stagehand from the first scene — as a countermove she pretends to herself is unrelated.

Book III is the war. Germany invades Poland in September 1939. Pierre and Gerbert are mobilised. Xavière stays in Paris and moves fully into Françoise's apartment. Françoise falls dangerously ill with pleurisy and pneumonia and spends weeks in a clinic; her convalescence takes months. Xavière visits daily, brings her flowers, sulks, and reads her Gerbert's letters — since Xavière has been opening Françoise's mail. Pierre returns on leave and by then loves Françoise more than Xavière; the affair with Xavière is over on his side. Xavière does not accept this. She writes Pierre a letter of protest and threat; Pierre confides in Françoise; Françoise, in a scene the whole novel has been building toward, tells Xavière about her own affair with Gerbert.

How it ends — spoilers aheadThe final movement, ending included. Open when you're ready.

The last section of Book III turns on the confrontation Françoise and Xavière have after Xavière discovers the affair with Gerbert. Xavière is not persuaded by any account of the trio's rules. She screams that Françoise has been secretly triumphing over her the whole time; that she — Xavière — will not consent to be a person Françoise has arranged; that Françoise is the enemy. She locks herself in her room and refuses to leave the apartment. Françoise goes to bed. She lies awake through the night listening to Xavière asleep on the other side of the wall and thinks. She understands, over the course of that night, that Xavière will not stop; that no principle can compel Xavière to release the person Xavière has decided to be enemy to; that there is another consciousness in the next room that will keep on being another consciousness, indefinitely, whether Françoise consents to it or not.

Just before dawn, Françoise gets up. She goes down to the gas meter on the landing outside Xavière's room, turns it on, and returns to her own bed. The novel's last sentences are hers. She has chosen. It was her own will she was carrying out. Nothing separated her from herself any more. She had chosen at last. She had chosen herself. The reader is left standing at the switch with her. The murder is the novel's philosophical argument made physical: if the price of another person's freedom is the surrender of one's own, and if there is no rule of shared freedom that can force that other person to reciprocate, then Françoise has taken the only step left in the version of the problem the novel has set up. Beauvoir spent the next twenty years — through The Ethics of Ambiguity, The Second Sex, and The Mandarins — writing books that took the opposite side of the same problem, in which the answer had to be lived with rather than killed.

Themes and analysis

These readings discuss events throughout the book, including its ending.

The theatre after everyone has gone

The opening gives Françoise's pleasure in the empty theatre a possessive edge. As she walks through its darkness, the carpet, seats and unused spaces seem to acquire meaning through her presence. Yet preserving that sensation would require her to remain everywhere at once, an impossible extension of a single viewpoint. The narration lets this limit emerge within her exhilaration rather than announcing it as a lesson. Gerbert's separate fatigue, registered before she leaves the office, has already placed another lived experience beside the world she imagines as her own.

An original response to the novel's opening theatre scene places Françoise in a room emptied of its audience. Gerbert's presence quietly complicates her sense of possessing the silence. (Illustration — The Paris Atlas)

Three people, no shared vantage point

The quoted trio exchange accompanying the opening excerpt promises a balanced trio in which nobody would be sacrificed. But its alternative casts the three participants as a jealous girl, a suffering victim and a flirt. Those roles expose how quickly an ideal of equal freedom can become an account that assigns each person a part. Read beside the imagined café scene, the passage makes the problem one of interpretation as well as desire: agreement about a shared arrangement does not guarantee agreement about what each participant is living.

An imagined café conversation makes the trio's uneasy geometry visible. The intimacy Françoise hoped to share becomes three separate ways of seeing the same room. (Illustration — The Paris Atlas)

Why we recommend it

  1. Why it matters

    It is the first full fictional test of Beauvoir's central question: how can one person pursue freedom without turning another person into an object?

  2. Where it fits

    Read it before The Ethics of Ambiguity if you want to meet the problem through a tense Paris story before reading the formal argument.

  3. What lingers

    Beauvoir dedicated the book to Olga Kosakiewicz — the real young woman the trio was based on — and the last sentence of the novel is the most philosophically consequential ending in French existentialist fiction: 'She had chosen at last. She had chosen herself.'

What this book explores

The people in its pages

The novel's cast, drawn openly from Beauvoir's and Sartre's real 1935–37 trio with Olga Kosakiewicz. Beauvoir dedicates the book to Olga on its title page. The characters are Beauvoir's fiction — Françoise's decision at the end is not something Beauvoir did — but the outline of the story tracks the real triangle closely.

  • Illustrated portrait of Françoise Miquel

    Françoise Miquel

    The novel's centre. A woman in her early thirties, novelist working on her first book, administrative partner in the Paris theatre her lover Pierre runs. Believes she and Pierre form a self-sufficient world; watches it come apart across three long parts; arrives at the philosophical conclusion the novel closes on.

  • Illustrated portrait of Pierre Labrousse

    Pierre Labrousse

    Françoise's long-standing lover and professional partner. A theatre director and actor with a national reputation, cast in Beauvoir's book as a man of intellectual charm who takes seriously the promise that the couple's rule of honesty and openness will hold — until, in the novel's second part, it does not. Drawn openly from Jean-Paul Sartre.

  • Illustrated portrait of Xavière Pagès

    Xavière Pagès

    The young woman from Rouen the couple bring to Paris. Nineteen, bored, striking, temperamental, refuses to work, refuses to accept the terms the couple offer her. Not a coded biography of Olga Kosakiewicz — Beauvoir dedicates the novel to her by name — but drawn openly from that friendship.

  • Illustrated portrait of Gerbert

    Gerbert

    A young stagehand and aspiring actor in Pierre's theatre. Introduced in the first scene as Françoise closes up at three in the morning; recurs through the book as Pierre's protégé; becomes Françoise's lover in the second part after Pierre's affair with Xavière begins. Drawn openly from Jacques-Laurent Bost.

Also in the book

  • Illustrated portrait of Élisabeth Labrousse

    Élisabeth Labrousse

    Pierre's older sister. A painter, a witness of most of the couple's Paris social life, and the third person the trio confides in over the years the book covers. Not part of the central love triangle.

Bring it to book club

  • Françoise agrees to Pierre's affair with Xavière as an expression of the rule of honesty their partnership rests on. At what point in the novel does the reader realise the rule cannot hold? Is Beauvoir making an argument about the rule, or about Xavière?
  • The novel is dedicated to Olga Kosakiewicz. What does the dedication do to the way a reader takes Xavière — and does it change once the reader knows that the real Olga went on to marry the man Gerbert is based on?
  • The ending is one of the most extreme in French existentialist fiction. Does Beauvoir let Françoise's decision be justified by the argument the novel has set up? Or is the novel indicting the argument by taking it to that conclusion?
  • Beauvoir would spend the next twenty years — in The Ethics of Ambiguity, The Second Sex, The Mandarins — writing books that took the opposite answer to the same problem. What did she keep from She Came to Stay, and what did she throw away?

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Timeline

  1. 1935

    Beauvoir and Sartre take up their student and family friend Olga Kosakiewicz in Rouen and Paris — the beginning of the real triangle the novel will later fictionalise.

  2. 1937

    The trio effectively ends; Beauvoir and Sartre resume being two, and Olga marries Sartre's protégé Jacques-Laurent Bost.

  3. 1938–1941

    Beauvoir writes the novel through the Munich crisis, the fall of France, and the first year of the German occupation of Paris.

  4. Autumn 1943

    Gallimard publishes L'Invitée in Paris. It is Beauvoir's first novel to reach print.

  5. 1949

    Yvonne Moyse and Roger Senhouse's English translation, She Came to Stay, appears from Secker and Warburg in London.

  6. 1954

    Beauvoir wins the Prix Goncourt for The Mandarins, a later Paris roman à clef that revisits several of the same names and one of the same friendships.

  7. 1958

    Memoirs of a Dutiful Daughter (Beauvoir's first memoir volume) covers the years before the trio; The Prime of Life (1960) will cover the trio itself in her own name.

  8. Modern editions

    Editions Gallimard reprint L'Invitée in the Folio paperback series; English editions are available from Norton and, in the United Kingdom, from Fontana.

Book editions

Paperback
Paperback
French
Gallimard
1943
Original French publication as L'Invitée. English editions use the translated title shown on this page.
Paperback edition cover
Paperback
Harper Perennial
2006
ISBN-13
9780007204649
Translated by
Yvonne Moyse and Roger Senhouse
Includes a new essay by Fay Weldon; 409 pages.

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The Ethics of Ambiguity

Simone de Beauvoir

Beauvoir's 1947 essay giving existentialism the ethics Sartre never got around to writing — the philosophical statement of the argument She Came to Stay had put in a novel and The Second Sex would put in a thousand pages two years later.

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The Mandarins

Simone de Beauvoir

Beauvoir's Prix Goncourt novel: a six-hundred-page roman à clef of the Parisian intellectual left in the four years after Liberation — Sartre, Camus, Koestler and Nelson Algren all present under lightly changed names.

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Recommended alongside All Men Are Mortal, Pyrrhus and Cineas and When Things of the Spirit Come First.

She Came to Stay: frequently asked questions

What is She Came to Stay by Simone de Beauvoir about?

Beauvoir's first novel is the story of an established Parisian couple, Françoise Miquel and Pierre Labrousse, who invite a younger woman, Xavière Pagès, into their lives — first as a beloved friend, then as the third party in a philosophical experiment about shared freedom that the couple's rules cannot hold. It is the first full test in Beauvoir's fiction of the argument about the other person she would soon state directly in The Ethics of Ambiguity.

Is She Came to Stay based on a real love triangle?

Yes — Beauvoir dedicates the novel to Olga Kosakiewicz, the Russian-born young woman she and Sartre had taken up in 1935 and formed a trio with for the next two years. The outline of the story (the older couple, the young woman they invite in, the older man's affair with her, the philosophical conflict) tracks that real triangle closely. The characters are Beauvoir's fictional creations, however, and the novel's ending is not something Beauvoir did.

When was She Came to Stay published?

Gallimard published the original French edition, L'Invitée, in Paris in the autumn of 1943 under Beauvoir's own name; it was her first novel to appear in print. Yvonne Moyse and Roger Senhouse's English translation, She Came to Stay, appeared from Secker and Warburg in London in 1949 — the year The Second Sex was published in French.

What happens at the end of She Came to Stay?

Françoise, having accepted that Xavière will not stop being an enemy to her whatever the philosophical rules of the trio said, gets out of bed at dawn, goes to the gas meter on the landing outside Xavière's room, and turns it on. The novel's last sentences — 'She had chosen. It was her own will she was carrying out … She had chosen at last. She had chosen herself.' — are the most philosophically consequential ending in French existentialist fiction and are the physical form Beauvoir gives to the problem the novel has spent five hundred pages posing.

How does She Came to Stay relate to Beauvoir's philosophy?

The novel is the first sustained fictional test of the argument Beauvoir would state directly in The Ethics of Ambiguity (1947): that individual freedom is meaningless if it does not affirm the freedom of others, and that the presence of another consciousness resists absorption into one's own project of self-realisation. The novel poses the problem in its most extreme form; The Ethics of Ambiguity and, later, The Second Sex work out how to live with it.

Who was the real Xavière?

Olga Kosakiewicz (1915–1983), a Russian-born young woman raised in Normandy whose family had emigrated after the 1917 Revolution. Beauvoir met her as a student at the lycée she was teaching at in Rouen in 1932. The intense three-year trio with Beauvoir and Sartre in 1935–37 dissolved into separate friendships; Olga later married Sartre's protégé Jacques-Laurent Bost (on whom the character Gerbert is drawn) and had a long career as a stage actress under the name Olga Bost.

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References

References

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  1. 1L'Invitée — opening excerpt and quoted trio exchange

    Novel
    Gallimard / excerpt reproduced by ActuaLitté, 2010
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    Primary French opening and separately presented trio dialogue support the added readings of perception and assigned roles. These are selected excerpts, not a newly collated complete novel.

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  2. 2She Came to Stay — 2006 Harper Perennial edition

    Official record
    Finna / Helmet Libraries, 2006
    Used for

    The library catalogue verifies the translators, Harper Perennial paperback edition, publication year, ISBN, and supplementary essay.

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  3. 3Simone de Beauvoir

    Website
    Éditions Gallimard
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    Used to place She Came to Stay within Simone de Beauvoir's published work and verify its bibliographic context.

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  1. 4Works catalogued under Simone de Beauvoir

    Archive
    Bibliothèque nationale de France
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    Used for independent biographical, archival, or historical context surrounding Simone de Beauvoir's career and the period in which She Came to Stay appeared.

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  2. 5Simone de Beauvoir

    Essays
    Stanford Encyclopedia of Philosophy
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    Used to cross-check authorship, chronology, and the work's place in Simone de Beauvoir's wider catalogue.

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  3. 6Beauvoir, Simone de (1908–1986)

    Official record
    Bibliothèque nationale de France
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    Used to verify Simone de Beauvoir's bibliography and place She Came to Stay within the broader chronology of Simone de Beauvoir's career.

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