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Illustrated portrait of The narrator’s father

A character in A Boy's Own Story

The narrator’s father

A distant, conventionally masculine parent whose approval the narrator both craves and resents.

What they want in White’s narrator’s account

To preserve his own freedom and a conventional idea of family masculinity.

The book

Cover of A Boy's Own Story by Edmund White
A Boy's Own StoryEdmund White, 1982

A boy learns shame early and tries every available way to turn himself into someone else.

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Who they are in the book

Spoiler-free

The narrator’s divorced father is emotionally unreliable, adulterous, and more comfortable with conventionally athletic traits. His distance intensifies the boy’s longing for male approval.

How the book draws them

Appearance, manner, and tone — as the book sketches them, in our words.

  • Well groomedHe carries the ease of a successful mid-century professional.
  • Emotionally reservedHis attention is inconsistent and difficult for the narrator to secure.
  • Conventionally masculineHe represents the role the narrator believes he cannot fill.
  • UnreliableHis adult freedom repeatedly comes at an emotional cost to the family.

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