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Illustrated portrait of The narrator’s mother

A character in A Boy's Own Story

The narrator’s mother

The primary parent whose closeness becomes distorted by the period’s false psychological theories about homosexuality.

What they want in White’s narrator’s account

To maintain closeness and stability after the marriage breaks down.

The book

Cover of A Boy's Own Story by Edmund White
A Boy's Own StoryEdmund White, 1982

A boy learns shame early and tries every available way to turn himself into someone else.

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Who they are in the book

Spoiler-free

She raises the children amid marital collapse and seeks emotional security through family attachment. Psychoanalytic explanations wrongly make the narrator’s relationship with her part of a supposed cause of his homosexuality.

How the book draws them

Appearance, manner, and tone — as the book sketches them, in our words.

  • Carefully composedDomestic order partly conceals the strain of the family’s instability.
  • AffectionateHer closeness gives the narrator comfort as well as material for others’ theories.
  • DependentHer need for attachment complicates the narrator’s efforts to separate.
  • MisinterpretedPeriod psychology turns an ordinary family bond into a false diagnosis.

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